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Quite often you here about how Japanese men abuse women. Have you ever heard of a case where a Western woman abuses a Japanese guy? Well, my good friend Yasu is dating someone whom I believe takes advantage of him. This guy happens to be one of the nicest and most generous guys I've met in Japan. He's unlike so many Japanese guys who tend to be selfish and into themselves. So when I see him getting stomped on and making all these compromises, my little saying to him is: DITCH THE BITCH! While his girlfriend might not be a bad person, she does have a severe mental problem. My girlfriend frequently gives me grief. Not sure why. Often I hear complaints about this or that and I'm sure a lot of complaints I don't hear at all. But in general we tend not to argue too frequently which keeps my blood pressure down. Yet in my friend's case, it's just non-stop putdowns and he just seems not to be able to make this person happy. I don't want to sound like a male chauvinistic pig, but goddamn, that person just acts like someone on constant PMS. I think some men enjoy it. It might be part of the dom-submissive type of trait in people. But for me, I'm not into it. I get enough whippings at work. Some of us guys just want people to be happy. Maybe we seem insensitive but it's never intentional (unless we want to ditch you). I've often heard women complaining that guys are insensitive to women's feelings. What about the other way around? I'm starting to think that relationships work in small doses. It's like being with your natural family; when you're young, you despite them for intruding on your space. When you get older and move away, they mean more to you as you realize what they've given you. Same with relationships, imo. You can't really appreciate a relationship if you're being stifled every day. But living apart and gradually building up seems to be the best way to go.